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“To be a star, you must shine your own light, follow your own path, and don’t worry about the darkness, for that is when the stars shine brightest.” – Napoleon Hill
Many years ago, I was young, naive, and engaged to be married. When that relationship ended unexpectedly, I found myself begrudgingly alone and completely terror stricken to venture out into the world with just my shadow for company. Amazingly, though, some of the things I learned during what I considered to be “The Aftermath” of the break-up were some of the most valuable lessons of my life.
- There is only one person who can validate your imporance in life: You.
- It’s better to a feel a little lonely sometimes with just yourself than to be with someone and feel alone.
- Somewhere, someone always has bigger problems than you do.
- You can make it through virtually any challenge as long as there is an end in sight.
- Nothing bad ever lasts forever.
- If you’re alone and sad, force yourself to smile repeatedly. After awhile, you’ll actually smile yourself happy.
- As a general rule, you have to work through the bad stuff to make it to the good stuff.
- Unanswered prayers go unanswered for a reason.
- Living in the past is a gigantic waste of time. Live now.
- Freedom is one of the most amazing gifts in the world. (Fifteen years later, this still holds great meaning for me.)
There are some wonderful things that can result from the healthy relationships that you cultivate with other people. However, your most important and longest-lasting relationship is the one you have with yourself. Nurture it accordingly.
In this lifetime, some of the greatest gifts will come to you when you least expect them, just as some of life’s most important lessons are the ones that come when you aren’t even studying.